Habits determine a person’s personality and what are the habits? Habits are our repeated behaviors we act while dealing with something. Something may be a person, paraphernalia or a particular time span we have been spending.
Some habits are intentionally be adopted or left (like of early rising, book reading, etc.) and sometimes we become the victim of certain strange habits (going in detail next) that do not leave the direct symptoms on you. And these are the habits that can gamble with you anytime.
In the beginning, these habits can serve the best for you by artificially increasing your potential and then can deceive you anytime without knowing you. Like if you’re a social geek, these habits can attach a lot of people around you and then on continuing these habits they will take your loved ones far from you. And you will have no idea how and why this happened.
Here are 6 habits that can turn your table any time silently.
If you are living in a community where you have a slightly more followership than others, you may be the scapegoat. Once you started thinking that you’re right whatever you do, you will insidiously be the victim of self-likeness.
You got an endorsement for an occasion because you put best into the practice and this never means what you will always do, always been endorsed besides the quality you will exhibit.
First there will be a time when people will think that you are a very nice person and they should be turned on you and be what you are and then after passing sometimes they will understand your reality but will you not.
2. Being idle
The man is here to create an impact on the earth, but it is also true he will only go towards it if he is pushed by something strongly. Strongly maybe the burning wish, maybe the need or maybe some passion.
With all, having nothing common from above, you became the habitual of being idle. And you will be left alone with you idleness helplessly.
3. False pretending
People had a strange habit of false pretending. This habit can click on a juncture but not all the time. If this has happened to you and you took an advantage of it, don’t think of to repeat it. False pretending is not gonna give you stand for a long period of time.
Eventually, you have to turn on the truth and people will know you. The most atrocious is when people started guessing you on your repeated behavior.
4. False praising
This is a very dreadful habit. The most horrible, awful and outrageous in the list. In the past, this habit has been used as a tool in the courts of the emperors by his courtiers.
By false praising, you can get a lot of virtues and prominence from the target but until how? You can expose any time and then you will be in hot water forever and nothing will be in your palm.
5. Jumbling after over drinking
After over drinking, in a side when you have lost your control on you, you have also been lost your credibility. As a rule, whatever you are saying during that instant will be negligible but it can impact a lot on your loved ones.
In your rubbish saying it is possible you may utter some words that are nothing to do with you in reality but are enough to hurt your audience, probably your friends or relatives. And by the habit of doing this, one day maybe you lost your loved ones tacitly.
Although this is very normal in the societies where drinking is very common but this impact the individuals. Particularly those who do not drink.
6. Always Being civilized
This is nonsense, but this is fact. Always impersonate of being civilized can create gaps between you and who are around you. The reason is very simple. Sometimes people want some liberty from the things like the mannerism, etc, etc.
Another dimension is when you think people respects you just because you’re a mannered person and then you started acting being a fundamentalist. You start pointing small version omission of others and try to illustrate them by the solid references of your knowledge which is not absorbable by them most of the time.
This is how they will feed up and will start avoiding you. And you will have no idea why is it happening.